180 Degree Attitude Shift – Day 398

The Turkey Distractors – Photo: L. Weikel

180 Degree Attitude Shift   

I had an interesting evolutionary experience yesterday. I underwent a 180 degree attitude shift as a result of a most unexpected encounter.

Yesterday afternoon, I ran out to the grocery store to pick up a few items. As I made my way home, navigating the puddles of rainwater accumulating on the asphalt and feeling the weight of the creeping fog that matched my mood all too well, I found myself behind a Bucks County Transport Company bus, it’s blinking yellow light caroming off the droplets of water suspended in midair.

The bus had slowed to a stop to allow a neighbor’s disabled brother to disembark, backpack clutched to his chest, his steps carefully measured so as not to lose his balance. His sister, a person I consider to be a passing acquaintance (quite literally, since we really only know each other from when she and her husband jog by us as we take our walks), was standing just up the driveway, waiting to greet him with a wide smile and open arms.

I felt so privileged in that moment to witness such unadulterated and spontaneous love and kindness.

A Moment Disrupted

My appreciation of that moment was jarred out of place by the revving of an engine immediately behind me. Looking in my rearview mirror, I saw a massive pickup truck looming over me, pulled up so close that its headlights were barely visible. It revved its engine again, and I could sense that it wanted to swing out into the oncoming lane and pass both me and the bus ahead of me, but was being forced to stay behind us by approaching traffic.

The impatience was palpable. The judgment, too.

But the bus resumed its route just as the oncoming car went by, and sealing the pickup’s fate of having to remain behind us was the approach of a second car in the opposing lane.

Just down a piece, my road splits off from the main thoroughfare. The bus bore left, remaining on the primary road, while I took the offshoot leading to my home. Regrettably, the gigantic pickup followed me. It continued ‘up my butt’ until I pulled straight into my driveway just to get out of its way. Unsurprisingly, its engine gunned as the impediment to its haste (yours truly) was removed. It tore down my road, far exceeding the 30 mile an hour limit.

It Must Be the Season

As I started writing this post, I realize that the attitude that clicked into gear in my head at that moment was not all that far off from something that happened last year.

You guessed it. When the pickup revved its mag engine yet again and sped down my road, I just had to see where this jerk was going. I backed out onto my road and started following the truck. We went about three quarters of a mile, with me keeping a decent enough distance behind that I was in no danger of being perceived as following. I saw where the truck coasted through a stop sign and turned off onto another road, but as I approached that same stop sign a flock of about 12 turkeys burst out from the left side of the road, crossed right in front of me, and landed pell-mell on the wooded bank above me.

Well, I could not let this opportunity pass. I stopped the car, turned on my 4-ways, and got out, all the while talking to the turkeys and thanking them for the gift of their presence. I told them how much more fun it was to be encountering them than chasing after some jerk.

Even More Gifts

As I took the photo above, I heard a couple muted gobbles and turned back to where the dozen had emerged. I was astounded to see at least another two dozen turkeys running through the leaves, down the bank on the opposite side and splashing through the creek that runs parallel to the road. They were running, half flying, and just making a total ruckus.

I was enchanted. I’ve never seen so many turkeys in one place.

Suddenly, all the turkeys that had burst out in front of me, crossing the road and breaking my determined chase after the impatient pickup started flying back across the road to return to their flock. I took a video, but it’s mostly of me swirling and twirling about, trying to catch them as they took off all around me. It was amazing and they had me laughing out loud. And the aerodynamic skills of these hefty birds (check out that photo) were, umm, comical to say the least.

And so it was that a 180 degree shift in attitude was the gift Turkey – actually a whole enormous flock of them – brought me yesterday. The delight they brought me was a reminder to focus on the love I’d just witnessed at my neighbor’s home.

Funny though – while it didn’t serve me to focus on the unconsciousness and impatience of the bully pickup, I do send it gratitude for leading me to a reminder of what’s important. Without it, I would’ve missed that remarkable encounter.

Turkey butts – Photo: L. Weikel

(T-713)

What Are People Thinking? – Day 149

Guardrail Garbage – Photo: L. Weikel

What Are People Thinking?

I know. What a question. It’s provocative in so many ways, right?

I’ll give you some context: I set off in a different direction today than I usually ever walk. I wanted to see how far it is and how long it would take me to circumnavigate the Tohickon from a different perspective.

Unfortunately for me, this entailed walking along Dark Hollow Road, where the speed limit is 35 yet this obviously pertains to no one. I’m the first to admit that keeping one’s speed at or below 35 on this major, albeit ‘country,’ thoroughfare is extremely difficult. But one would think it would be much, much easier to be aware of that speed when there’s a person walking along the side of the road.

Think of the Hassle!

If nothing else, wouldn’t hitting a person with your vehicle be a hassle? Not to mention bloody, undoubtedly painful for everybody via injuries, potentially deadly, inflicting a major hit to one’s wallet, and just plain inconvenient – for it would undoubtedly make you late for whatever destination you are busting your hump to get to that you can’t let up on the accelerator much less put on your brakes when you see a person on the side of the road.

Every single time I heard a car coming – from either direction – I would deliberately step off the road and get as far away from the road surface as possible. But just like most roads, in some places that was easier to do than others.

Ignorance? Or Unconsciousness?

It was infuriating, then, to witness how the majority of people either ignorantly or obliviously acted as if my presence close to the roadway bore absolutely no relevance to the operation of their vehicle. Most cars that approached me (for I was walking on the correct side of the road, which is facing toward on-coming traffic) neither perceptibly slowed down in the least, nor did they move over toward the middle of the road to even cross the center line. It was as if they were constitutionally prohibited from leaving their lane to be either courteous or safe – regardless of the fact that no cars were coming in the other direction.

We are talking a country road. And I am referring to places where there was significant sight distance. I wasn’t asking people to take any risks on for themselves; I was simply hoping they might use a tiny bit of common sense and at least decelerate and move over.

Apparently that was too much to ask.

To make matters worse, I did not get further than a quarter of a mile and I had the plastic grocery bag I’d brought with me filled to the brim (and heavy!) with mostly broken beer bottles, as I’d had to choose. It was as if I were walking along a buffet table of ignorance.

Besides the hundreds of cigarette butts, there were glass bottles, both broken and intact, plastic bottles of all shapes, sizes, and colors, potato chip bags, power bar wrappers, McDonald’s and Dunkin’ Donut detritus, plastic bags, electrical outlet plugs, a heavy box filled with razor blades…

Yes. You read that right. <<shudder>>

Choose Your Battles?

Not only did I have to make an initial choice of what to focus my retrieval process on, but I also had to be extremely discerning on when and where to pick up. The whoosh of so many of the vehicles passing so closely to me full speed ahead was, quite frankly, in even measure terrifying and enraging.

I heard myself apologizing to Mother Earth over and over and over as I walked. It boggles my mind that people can be so unconscious (or so colossally ignorant).

But the coup de grace came when I was walking down Stump Road as it approaches Ralph Stover State Park. I was surrounded by trees upon trees, with admonitions of no hunting or fishing allowed on state lands posted intermittently. Birds sang and called to each other high in the trees, while the first spits of rain and rumblings of thunder encouraged me to move it and seek shelter. I’d already relieved myself of the weight of a full bag of trash when I spotted a county park garbage can about a mile earlier, and was already close to having another filled when I came upon a stretch of newly installed guardrail alongside the road.

Is This Apathy?

I was astounded to discover massive nuts and bolts obviously left over from the old and presumably damaged guardrail scattered underneath each joint  where sections of guardrail were bolted together. Not only were there dozens of these substantial and hefty nuts and bolts laying beside the road, there were spikes, too. It was apparent that the people who replaced the guardrail did not think to pick up and dispose of the old nuts, bolts, and spikes used to hold guardrails together and in place. They just left them there.

Honestly: who does this?!? In what world would anyone – particularly those tasked with maintaining the safety of the roadway – think it’s ok to just drive away without picking up and disposing of these items?  Can you imagine the damage that would be done to most cars if one of these items bounced up and hit a headlight or a windshield? I cringe when I consider the harm that could come to a motorcyclist or bicyclist.

I was incensed as I picked these items up. I didn’t even have enough room in my (second) bag to pick all of them up – so I will have to go back tomorrow. The handles to my plastic bag were stretching and cutting off the circulation in my fingers. With the bottles and cans I’d already picked up (again), it had to have weighed fifteen or twenty pounds, at least.

A Quick Pic

It was thundering and I caught sight of some lightning as I was picking these items up, so I made haste. As a result, I only managed to take a quick shot of a few of them laying on the ground (a photo I thought about sending to the road maintenance department but almost certainly won’t). I’d already picked up a bunch from this spot, but at least you can see what I was talking about. Sadly, it was actually far worse than this looks.

All of which causes me to circle back to my original question: what are people thinking?

How can we live in a world with prancing pigs and peepers, and gorgeous moments when the sun breaks through clouds following a storm (like the shot below, which I captured about an hour after my encounter with the nuts, bolts, and spikes), and remain so grossly uncaring about our environment – and each other?

I don’t understand.

Yet maybe there is nothing to understand. Maybe it’s just a matter of doing and being what we know is right and true for ourselves. If our actions inspire others, great. If not…

(T-962)

After the Storm – Photo: L.Weikel 9 April 2019