Cuteness – Day 554

May I have more, Mommy? – Photo: L. Weikel

Cuteness

Sometimes cuteness is the only thing that gets me through the day. Especially lately. Not my own, by any stretch of the imagination. Good grief. No…I’m talking about the irresistible expressions of adorableness that I enjoy every single day at the paws of my familiars.

I cringe at the thought of imagining life without the daily dose of joy I receive from my pups and kittens. And even the fact that I refer to my old chunks of fur (none of my three cats are younger than at least 7 years old) as kittens tells you how cherished a place they hold in my heart.

It’s odd that I’m sitting here writing about the cats, though, when it’s Spartacus who’s been taking the cuteness cake lately.

Innocent Delight

Just that face; I mean really. I let Spartacus lick clean a container of yogurt the other day and this was my reward a few minutes later. The innocent delight was palpable. I could not look at him without grinning myself – and day after day I keep realizing just how precious it is to have a reason to smile.

Tonight, as I was sitting here contemplating what I could write this evening that might distract us all from, well, everything that’s going on in our world right now, I could hear Karl calling to Spartacus. Karl was trying to talk him into going upstairs with him because he’s such great company.

But take a look at where Spart was at the time he was being summoned by Karl:

Spartacus, wedged and cuddling – Photo: L. Weikel

He was wedged between my legs and the cushions of our couch. His ears curled just slightly when he heard Karl calling his name. I knew he was tempted. There’s nothing worse to Spart than being asked to split his loyalties and choose between us. But I could tell, at least for the time being, he’d found his sweet spot.

Sheila

It’s hard for me to write so much and so often about Spartacus, when he quite literally would not be here if it weren’t for Sheila. Not only is she his mother, but she also was our first dog as a family. It was a monumental decision for us to decide to get a puppy. We’d always been cat people. And let’s face it, cats train their owners; dogs, however, require a completely different skill set (beyond love, which it goes without saying is necessary for all animals).

Sheila changed our lives. If she hadn’t turned out to be the best addition to our family, Spartacus wouldn’t even have been a glint in our eye. It makes me sad now that she is so deeply ensconced within her own inner world, having lost her sight to cataracts and her hearing to old age.

And that’s not to say that she doesn’t still exude a ton of personality, as I realize I’m not shy in sharing with you. And she is the epitome of cuteness – even still – as the old gray-muzzled hound she’s become.

Part of the Family

I’m so grateful for all the animals that share their lives with me. Of course, my life wouldn’t be nearly as rich or entertained without my Sheila, Spartacus, Precious, Cletus, and Tigger. But I’d also be lost without the variety of animals that cross my path each day, lurk in the woods beside our garage, visit our feeders, prance around our compost pile, or grok at me as they swoop in to snag a peanut.

All of the creatures I’m lucky enough to share life with are a part of my family. And sometimes they’re the only ones whose cuteness can brighten my day.

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A Tragic Blur – Day 502

A Blur of Green – Photo: L. Weikel

A Tragic Blur

It’s becoming a tragic blur. Every day we’re hearing about more and more people losing their lives to the Coronavirus pandemic that’s exploding in our country. I’m sure this is just the tip of the iceberg, and two weeks from now (April 10th– it’s a date) we’ll wish we were only experiencing the rate of positive tests and deaths we’re reporting and lamenting today. Today’s anguish will seem ‘aspirational’ to our future selves.

If you stay off social media and refuse to turn on your tv or radio, it’s easy to both be a responsible citizen, practicing social distancing and remaining in the orbit of your home, and lose complete track of the insanity unfolding in hospitals all over the country, but especially in New York City. The nurses, doctors, respiratory therapists, and emergency personnel of all stripes who are operating in overdrive, attempting to meet the tidal wave of need that’s overcoming our cities, are operating within that tragic blur. All they see are people in fear and distress, unable to breathe, desperate for care and compassion.

No filter – Photo: L. Weikel

Guilt of Relative Ease

And here I am, ostensibly doing my best to ‘flatten the curve’ and keep our local hospitals from suffering the same fate as New York’s and becoming inundated with new Covid-19 patients. My sacrifice – if you can even call it that, which I for one honestly cannot in good conscience do – is to refrain from going anywhere other than the grocery store or the pharmacy (to neither of which places I’ve gone in a week). Hardly a sacrifice.

No, I can’t sit in the same room with my son and daughter-in-law, or give them a hug when they appear at our door bearing gifts of pizza and pierogies. But they’re not sick and neither are we. And I want it to stay that way. If not touching or sitting in the same room as them for a couple of weeks or months will do the trick? I’m all for it.

Compared to the horrors of the hospitals? There is none.

Treasure the Little Things

So in honor of those who are in the trenches, in honor of the people who are working slavishly day in and day out trying to save as many lives as possible without having the right equipment or survival mechanisms at their disposal, I try to treasure the little things.

In honor of those who are tragically losing their lives every day, I am trying to appreciate the beauty that surrounds this place where I am forced to stay for not only my own good, but the good of my family, community, county, and state.

What do I see when I pay exquisite attention?

Beauty. Innocence. Magnificence. Agelessness.

And that quality I always seem to come back to no matter how hard I try to focus my attention elsewhere: love.

Photo: L. Weikel

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Worth Your While – Day 343

Eagle in a darkening sky – Photo: L. Weikel

Worth Your While

This weekend’s reunion with my college friends was a hard act to follow. In fact, even the weather knew it couldn’t top its performance from the day before, so it just gave up and offered the complete opposite: the skies darkened and rain began pummeling the earth just as we began taking our leave.

It rained the whole way home, and when I decided to make a quick stop at the Wegman’s, I became soaked to the bone in the raw rain. So by the time I got home, I was deeply chilled. Shivering. I found it almost impossible to warm up.

Karl’s Agenda

Although he did demand a quick debrief on the weekend as soon as I walked in the door, Karl tenderly wrapped me in a blanket and snuggled up with me on the couch when he realized how cold my extremities were. I was tempted to take a hot shower or bath, but – curiously – Karl seemed hell-bent on locating a movie he’d discovered while clicker flicking while I was away.

He obviously felt pretty confident I would enjoy it for he persisted. While it’s not unusual for Karl to occasionally suggest that we watch a particular movie on one of our premium channels, it’s not exactly common, either.

Curiosity Piqued

Cuddled together on the couch, he kept marveling at how cold I was, while impatiently flicking through Netflix and HBO. Finally, he got to the Amazon Prime site and found what he was looking for: the movie Life Itself.

My curiosity was piqued. This was not like Karl. Even he commented, “Gee, I hope this isn’t a dud. I don’t know why I’m so driven to find this and watch it with you,” he said. “Now. Tonight,” he emphasized.

So we watched the movie.

Emotional Payday

What a great production. I loved it – we both did. I could not have asked for a more perfect confirmation of the deep and juicy conversations that took place over the weekend.

As a result, if politics or the weather, worry or commitments are weighing you down this week, then I urge you to watch this movie. Again, it’s called Life Itself and you can find it on Amazon Prime. It’s definitely worth your while.

Porcupine Concurs

In conclusion, I just want to include a photo of a little guy who made a rather concerted effort today to get our attention. Somehow or another, I feel this creature is significant to so much of what was discovered this weekend, as well as the message brought home by Life Itself. (Ha ha – I love that double entendre!)

Trust. Have faith. And embrace your innocence.

Photo: wagwalking.com

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